I was going to tweet this one little confession on Twitter.
I cajoled my husband into buying a lovely old piano when we first moved into our new house, which he did on the proviso that I learn to play. Of course I would learn, I said. That’s the whole idea of buying one. Why have a piano if you can’t play it.
That was 10 years ago, and I, er, still haven’t learnt to play it.
OK, so that was the confession I was going to make. But then I started thinking of all the other things I was “gunna” do. They make a somewhat shameful list:
- Finish three patchwork quilts I have in varying stages of not-yet-finishedness.
- Get frames for the myriad of photos I have lying around and stylishly decorate our home with them.
- Learn French.
- Post here three times a week…
I won’t bore you with the complete list. Needless to say, there are quite a few other things I could add.
Procrastination annoys the bejeezus out of me. I’ve read a great pile of books about overcoming it. I’ve visited the websites. I know how to overcome it. It feels great to get something done, even a small part of a task. Why don’t I just do it?
My major problem, I think at least, is that I overthink everything. I’ve written about that before in my Productivity for Mums series. The other thing is, if I’m realistic, there might be a few too many things on my list. I’m probably not going to be able to do all the things I’ve listed above at the same time, certainly not while managing a family and home.
So what is the answer…
Go back to basics. Break things up into smaller, achievable tasks. Create a list and just do the stuff on it without complicating what is not complicated. I’m also going to get back to focusing on my goals here (oh gosh, was my August review really the last one I did?), which I’ve let slide in favour of other things I’ve been working on.
Do you sometimes feel like you just need to stop what you’re doing and go back to basics? Regroup? How do you go about it?
Tags: procrastination, productivity
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Another serial procrastinator here.
But honestly – I’ve been noticing that my main problem is simple. I stress myself out. Then just avoiding the whole mess seems the simplest method. Instead, what I need to do is take out my mental to-do list and get realistic. Sure I MIGHT be able to do all 46 tasks this weekend, but will I be capable of actually working on Monday??
Somehow, going easy on myself has always been tough. I consistently have ridiculously high expectations. And yeah, high goals are good. But too high is DUMB. So I’m trying to cut down on the expectations, while trying to keep at least one improvement in front of me as a goal. It cuts down the stress AND the procrastination.
Hope the essay helps ๐
I so know what you mean about the stress Naomi. Thanks for your thoughts.
Good luck! Definitely on worry about what you CAN do, not what you should have done. I also read some interesting perspective today that would be a great read for Naomi and yourself, I bet. Hopefully, the link will work.
The Truth About Procrastination on FluentSelf’s blog
The Truth About Procrastination
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Oops, “Definitely on worry” should have been “Definitely only worry”. ๐
Suzannes last blog post..Focus Challenge – Month 9
I plan to do something about my procrastinating tomorrow. Definitely tomorrow.
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